The Role of Boys in YA: Idealized Heartthrobs – Yay or Nay? And Where’s the Spice?
Young Adult literature has long been a mirror to the teenage experience, exploring themes of identity, friendship, love, and growth. One consistent theme across many YA books, though, is the portrayal of boys as idealized heartthrobs—characters who seem almost too perfect to be true. Whether they’re the brooding bad boy, the charming best friend, or the mysterious heartthrob, these male characters often steal the show. But is it okay that they’re idealized this way? Should they be perfect, or is there room for more realistic portrayals of teenage boys?
And while we’re at it—how spicy should YA books be in 2025? Let's discuss both the romantic idealization of boys and the increasing desire for more mature themes in YA, especially when it comes to romance.









